If they want to play that game I would be more than happy to tell them about the countless numbers of compromised condoms that I threw in the trash over my lifetime. Probably billions of swimmers...My ex had to stop taking birth control because her hormones were screwy. That was 30 years ago.. I used condoms before I met her too, because I wasn't looking for the next baby momma or to catch HIV in those days, lol I was just worried about acing my math tests.
I got a couple years of raw dogging in but it was no difference to me. Feels the same wether you wrap that rascal or not. Better to be safe than sorry.