Almost word for word what I've told those who've asked me 'what do you think?'
There's no afterlife because once your lights go out they are off. Now I could be wrong but nobody has came back to tell me about it.....
I have the boxes in which the ashes of my parents are contained, names on each, no urns, no dumping them in the lake. They're stacked one on top of the other, I reverse positions every year or so, just in case they're watching from somewhere or another.....trying to be fair to both.