de·vi·ant (de've-?nt) adj. Differing from a norm or from the accepted standards of a society. n. One that differs from a norm, especially a person whose behavior and attitudes differ from accepted social standards.
And what exactly is this "deviancy" you were thinking of there.
Can you imagine this "transgender sister" of hers, growing up with this conix monster continuously calling her a "deviant"? What an unbelievably sick woman she is.