LOL I have a few female friends that use that word to describe other women all the time and it doesn't bother me at all. I personally try to stay away from language like that because it only gets me into trouble but as the old saying goes....
If the shoe fits you wear it.
No matter who puts it on.
I think it's quite comical that you come in all tough, rough and ready to criticize everyone else in the world but pull the victim card as soon as someone gives it back to you.
I'm not sure how things go down at the local Klan meetings but that's not normally how we in the real world function.