Moral of story, and is big issue imo, is when one has parts 2/10th of the story and you fill in 8/10ths with innate human behavior of leaning towards "unconscious negativity", and add it up, you get 10/10 = 1 untruth.
aka half truths are still whole lies.. so it's critical to have that self awareness, and not look at s/p or red day of justification to fill gaps with negativity imo.
this is just how i view the world. I understand its human nature and completely appreciate the frustration, but dont let it cloud judgement.
In medicine, you assume, people die. Never move fwd without source and i dependent confirmation of the source. If one does, it must be stated when you share your "thought stream" on a forum. Which segments are facts, and which segments are assumptions based on facts. Assumptions are very volatile and context is everything.
Hope this helps.. sorry for speed typing and any grammatical errors..
peace! Be strong. I will poke the bull tonight and see what I can get