Didn't say you have to take abuse from anyone... and yet I also know you are called to not be of this world, right? Something tells me you're not exactly emulating the character of Christ in the way you handle your frustrations on this board.
You need to lighten up; your skin is nearly transparent it's so thin. You can sling it, but you sure don't like when a fraction of it is slung back at you. If you're going to dish it - be prepared to take it in return.