Well no, 75 voters in 3 States tipped the election.
Yes, what was supposed to be a sure victory for Hillary, with a 90% chance of winning, turned out to be something way different. It was not just those slim margins that decided the election. It was wholesale abandonment of the Obama/Hillary direction for America. The margins are insignificant compared to the overwhelming number of people that went from voting for Obama to voting for Trump, instead of Hillary. I was just one of them.
As far as spewing hate, there are plenty on both sides doing it. Read the posts here from the liberals that post here. Hate & condensation seem to exhibit themselves rather clearly. Did Obama teach you that?