Fwiw, I don't ever expect that you have to agree with how I handle things. Assuming you make parole you may continue to PM with the concerns you have. The only thing I ask is that you be nice on the public board. If you find that you're getting all worked up because you think I'm being an enabling idiot just walk away for a while. Read your daughter a book or something. You'll be healthier and happier for it.