Rufus is a stranger to you, and yet you are taking his word that on everything. He has proven nothing. You are putting your money on the line because some unknown person has promised you riches.
It is obvious now to me that you are part of the pumper conspiracy. No poor widow would be rudely flaming someone who could possibly be willing to help her out.
I think that would be pretty obvious to any impartial reader of this board. You guys are just about finished with this amazing circus if you are willing to damage your own persona's like that.