" Also people who as why typical use this as a child would to control a conversation and take the offense and turn it to a defence stance and thus control the conversation"
i dont think you got my point
I am known for butchering the english language..don't use a spell checker...don't use proper grammer...don't capitalize..use your for you're...etc
but I can't figure out if your posts are intentional or what...and truly sometimes I just cant figure out what you are saying...and dont know if it is word play or butchering the language
by the way, I am now incorporating variations of Bobotmized ( or whatever your version was) into my language..at least I understood that reference ;-)