I expect nothing from anyone, I don't get burned that way, I guess you would have had to be drunk for 15 years and 2 years of court appointed rehab, to figure out that your A$$ and my A$$ are number 1 in our books, and I don't let anyone or anything, jeopardize, my feelings, serenity, or financial will being. Its called survival. A little selfish yes, But that is what keeps me sober and on an even keel.....I are what I are mattie...............