AKvetch...
a) I've no idea. I'm not a founder of this board. However, that was what one of the other founders told me.
b) Yes, as far as being 'dead'. The "why" is anyone's guess.
There is something else, too. The dynamics of the individuals...it's a lot more complicated, and emotion-laden than you may realize.
"Never anger a dragon, for thou art crunchy and go well with brie."
Viv