Certainly not. I have both this thread and the SI thread bookmarked. One of the first posts I read this morning was your entreaty to "just drop it" to Matt. Then I logged into SI and found you whining over there, far from "just dropping it". I found the contradiction too precious to pass up.
I do agree with Matt and many others that what you did with the email was unconscionable. The fact that you refuse to own up to that and apologize speaks for itself.