Chowdrhed. Excellent post. I agree. I spend more time bending over backwards protecting people whose main motive it seems is not to debate but to get into personal attacks and cause problems. I'm glad that Matt assists me and steps in once in a while. It's certainly not an easy job and you never can please everyone.
That being said it's still the BEST system on the internet!
The rest of your post makes a lot of sense also. It's good to hear both sides of the coin. Thats what makes you think about your investment. But doing it in a respectful way sometimes is just not an option for some.