it's not a matter of being right or wrong - I'm just trying to understand the argument so I can make a determination as to its validity.
But, yes - you're correct in that it doesn't matter *who* is right or wrong, as long as you're acting on the *right* information ;)
I have a social disorder (although it's not quite full blown Asperger's), and can come across differently than intended...if you're offended by something I've said, I probably didn't mean it with such animosity - please take it with a grain of salt. :)