sarai, you don't know what you are talking about. James Dobson and Focus on the Family had nothing to do with harrassing the family and mourners of Matthew Sheppard.
Focus on the Family couldn't have been more opposed to the abomination of Sheppard or more sympathetic to his family. James Dobson certainly opposes abortion. But his platform is love for his fellow man.
Do not malign or slander this organization. If you wish to critique it then first find out what you are talking about.