Matt:
You go to the Elks Club..You talk positive Elks things..some negative Elks things..End of night; you're an Elk; next day, you're still an Elk..
On other hand..If you don't like being an Elk, or tire of it..Stay home, don't talk Elks..and you're not an Elk..
You don't go to an Elk's Club, week after week, not pay your dues, and telling the membership how stupid they and Elks are...That's a basher...Thimk.