you know, now that I think about it .. at this time in my life, it's odd to me that we all TURNED out to be strong believers in secular humanism ... darn, one of us should have turned out to be a believer .. but we didn't. I think my Mom ... .sorta had a hidden deeper belief in Jesus ... and I'm not sure why I 'feel' that .. . other than 'soft subtle things' said, along the way...and then maybe not.
we do ALL strongly believe in replenishing the earth, ashes to ashes, dust to dust. Burial or Cremation ... it doesn't matter. The family bought all these grave plots in two states, years & years ago .. so we have them sitting there .. lololol ... we did sell a couple of them in Chicago ... ahhh such a life .. !