I find you're your law rather arbitrary. The multiple personality restriction seems to only apply to people who use aliases. The cursing rules I can live with because I don't follow them. I'm of the mind that personal attacks should be monitored and ignored by thread heads as they are. Idiots I'm not sure about, this category I find rather arbitrary. Overall I find this sight benefits from you're personality. Bob, on the other hand, always seems to be out of town during problems and seems to care more about his daughter than the well being of this site which is how it should be.
Rather than becoming more aloof I would encourage you to find more people who can share the load of you're site.