have not been there since 1990 and i have tons of relatives there 20 yrs is a LONG time we were kids now we are grown men and women i don't think i'll have any problems over there over all times are tough and the economy sucks but people are going about there business everything in life is just a matter of realization once u decide to deal with what it is u have to it all becomes much easier now if one can change the situation , by all means do so but if it's out of your conrol , accept it it will make life much easier one can complain and pout all they want changes nothing but your own individual feelings they'll all live