keeping marriage between a man and a woman and not promoting abortions are good ideas in my opinion.
There have been many gay marriages to date. Has it affected, damaged or threatened your marriage in the slightest? No one promotes abortion. It's an option that should be available to a woman if she chooses it. It's really no one else's business and should be decided between a woman and her doctor.
I don't believe men should have a say-so on the abortion issue just like women shouldn't have a say-so on how many Viagra pills impotent men should have to take a day.