OMG! So very sorry to hear that about your sister. My God Bless her!
I got some sad news last Friday, my son called, my d-in-lwas mom passed away in a Portland hospital. She had been there for a week or so. Very sick, she was a smoker and drinker for 40 years as a bartender. It wasn't a shock at her age of 71. IMO...after all that abuse to her body, she was luck to live that long.