The Day Shorters Room

[Churak]

did not know where giving you a thumbs up for asking a question was saying you were rude

You said that DC asked you politely by PM. The default of that was that Mary asked you publicly & rudely...unfortunately, I guess that is how she took it. She obviously doesn't have the up to date version of the LANCE-ENGLISH dictionary to know that you weren't calling her rude.