This is the same family who invited me to a meeting at their Mosque shortly after 9/11 - it was a packed house. I offered to wear a headscarf out of respect, but my neighbor said it was not necessary - I did anyhow. A northern NJ newspaper (The Bergen Record) interviewed me...and to one of my son's surprise, when he picked up his Bergen Record his mom was on the front page!
Don't complain for what you don't have - be thankful you don't get what you deserve. Irish Proverb