Then why do it? Oh, I'm sorry. I understand now. You are being held hostage by someone who gets a kick out of rubbing salt in others' wounds. If you will give me your address, I'll call 911 for you and have you rescued.
"The serial bully......is the single most important threat to the effectiveness of organisations, the profitability of industry, the performance of the economy, and the prosperity of society."(bullyonline.org)