Matt's reaction has been typical of what many parents attempt with difficult teenagers, ever tighter restrictions and increased frustration at the lack of success.
That's true for the small things. But when it's an important rule, I must enforce it quickly and consistently. If it's my house, I don't just put up with unacceptable behavior. When rules are broken, priviledges are removed. TOS must be enforced quickly and consistently.
Sara
Go Giants! Go 49ers!
Sara
"I never give them hell. I just tell the truth and they think it's hell." - Harry Truman