Fuagf, thanks for the post. I'm not angry at you or Steph. Clearly we disagreed on this subject, but the area of my frustration is that we had gone back and forth for at least a couple of posts each where I tried to communicate one thing, and Steph heard (and debated) quite a different thing.
That happens sometimes. I failed to get my point across, so I gave up trying. That's ok, because it's a new day, and I'm not frustrated any more. It's ok to agree to disagree sometimes.