benz, variance feels much more comfortable with me .. you know .. difference .. love it .. often kinda special .. it appeals .. the article was not meant to "answer' any questions .. lol .. thanks for replying as i thought you might .. heh .. one right today so far .. lolol .. while reading i had a gut feeling of the best way to go .. did you at all? can you put all conditioning .. all societal conditions aside? .. do you have any bottom line personal gut feeling on the best approach? years ago it was terrible to be left-handed .. right?