Fuck definition, i'm talking about feeling. And only personal. It took me 15 years to get out of a relationship i knew was a goner after one. Emotionally tied, mentally i couldn't make it work. We separated and got back together three times. Again, am only talking about me. I know people stay together for children's sake, and for all sorts of other reasons. Good for them if they are content enough with it. Pity them if they are desperately unhappy, yet choose or have to because of circumstance. Am just happy i was lucky enough to avoid that situation .
It was Plato who said, “He, O men, is the wisest, who like Socrates, knows that his wisdom is in truth worth nothing”