So when a husband[country] abandons his longtime family [the EU] to live more by himself[the USA] and the wife[the EU and kids} have to reorganize to survive more by themselves[the EU] you praise the husband [trump/USA] for that.
That is utterly stupid. You seem unable to understand that our European allies are OUR first defense against Putin. Putin is not our friend. He may be Trump's best buddy, but that's obviously a personal thing between a pair of gangsters.