What? Please recast in a way that makes its meaning clear. I was able to divine one of your points:
The Dems do need new leadership. So do the Republicans. Younger people. But the people who should have seen change and opportunity in Kamala Harris, didn't. Stupidly and blindly, they turned to Trump. That happened for a variety of reasons, but a lot of it had to do with resentful men, and people of both parties and sexes who are still not ready to elect a woman president.