You are going to answer that one yourself because it's you that is caught in a vacumn. The coercion that is created by yourself and Mark is pathetically Obtuse.
You guys and your cantankerous attitudes are a dead giveaway something is going, why in hell would you and Mark be here for 5 years and counting, that is of course there is something to be hidden or you are just that fcking stupid.
Oh right... forgot... you just need to ensure that we know it's over.