I thought of this quote when I read your claim of integrity
Commodus:
You wrote to me once, listing the four chief virtues. Wisdom, Justice, Fortitude and Temperance. As I read the list I knew I had none of them.
Your posts reveal that you need help with the first two aspects of integrity listed below.
Also consider that respect entails self respect. No one who has any would post the punctuation free, run on, word salad sentences that you post.
Most people writing them would read them and exclaim; 'holy shit', I cant post that. It makes me look like an unthinking, illiterate, ass-clown'. Most people.
This means telling the truth, being open, not taking advantage of others. It does not entail “sharing” unnecessary information, and has little to do with witch-hunts of any description.
Truth may be inconvenient, as former US vice president Al Gore memorably observed, but it does involve using one’s discernment. Blurting an opinion isn’t always honest. Nor is pussyfooting around with words when confronted with an unpalatable reality.
Honesty speaks to what must be done, in the best interests of everyone. And sometimes the timeliness of the honest communication is as critical as the content.
2. Respect
We have all witnessed reckless single-minded insensitive behaviour in a plethora of situations, and the consequences are seldom pretty.
Respect necessarily means exercising a broader sense of what’s going on, and giving the other party / parties the benefit of the doubt, and a chance to articulate their concerns or interests.
When everyone is making an effort in this fashion, we see the beginnings of respect.
Seek information, ask polite questions, give the other person the opportunity to speak and explain. Respect can only be earned, and it is achieved when there is mutual effort applied.