Soooo worthwhile Zab!, keep goin' ;).. [Father in law did it for the family and pretty much stuck to two themes growing up on the prairie and working for UN (well, u know CIA ;) at airport during https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Congo_Crisis Lost him during Covid (in nursing home) which mean't couldn't see him, fuck.]
On a side note, my daughter has me writing stories of my life so she can share them with her son. They start with a topic, like tell me something about your father, or a decision I made that changed my life. I do one a week, she gets me to remember times in my life I had almost forgot. One was a concert I missed in 1969, I was stuck on the New York State Thruway, so I turned around and went back home, but still had a great weekend.