I'm still here. Do you have problems? I understand personal issues and I might be able to help. The first thing you have to do is respect yourself. All the rest falls in gradually.
Blaming others for your shortcomings is not a healthy way to live.
I'm not fooling around. I know.....
Wisdom is learning from the mistakes of others. Intelligence is learning from your own mistakes. A fool learns neither from the mistakes of others, nor his own mistakes.