HOG, From reading that situation as a 3rd party... my hunch is it's because she may have felt you guys short-changed her by initially not wanting to even mention that she was there, then not having her say much as far as her opinion, etc. Kind of wanting her to be seen and not heard.
I'm not commenting on whether that was a good idea or bad idea, etc, nor any comment personally about any of you 3; just my take on it as I saw all the posts unfold and the drama ensue.
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