I even know one .. whose wife divorced him, because in younger days he was fooling around a bit in New York... lol .. but they are wonderful wonderful Fathers for the most part .... anyway . .after the kids finished college ... got out on their own .. .. moved to different states etc... a little bit of time passed .. and suddenly she was forty eight or so .. and she said . .you know what? .. I'm divorcing 'him' ... .. we all said YaY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!... and she did .. and he still takes care of her .. AND the family and his grand kids ... you ought to see the house he just bought her again ... .. ohh my ..
They never stop being Fathers and they never stop being husbands, living with the wife or not .. doesn't matter
I'll tell you ... just like all men ... . If they are good they are very very good ! ... oh and by the way .. now they are friends .. ;) he won her over again ..............sigh...it's easy to see why .. ;) she let's him stay at the house he bought for her and keeps up for her and of course the car he bought her ... ;) but He can't stay too long .. as somehow she gets agitated again .. and he is asked to leave ... He does .. he has many places to stay ...
His first born daughter wanted children, the husband didn't this battle went on and on and on ..finally The father came and out they went for a long long walk up in San Francisco ... .. and I have no idea the conversation, someone does, but no one is talking ... but somehow .......... he agreed to have a child ... and they now have two BEAUTIFUL BOYS! ... these father in law talks appear to be most helpful to famlies ! .. God I love a good man ! ............;)
I asked his wife .. what do you think he said ? . .she said something like ... he told him without a family .. You are nothing! .. nothing .. she says it's our legacy ... .. etc.. . without children there is no life ! now she doesn't know what he said because he's not talking .. but that is what she guesses .. .and I kind of believe her after observing him for many many years .... ..
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