Looks like Mary is unable to delete that post since she is suspended. If anything happens to Mary do you want to be held responsible? Does your rich dentist want to face a lawsuit for not removing a woman's private information from your message board? I know she's annoying but that's no reason to risk bodily harm to this woman. Be a gentleman and do the right thing Matt. You protected a man who lives in a country not easily accessible ... why won't you protect a woman in the U.S. who is more likely to suffer harm?
You look like you are showing favoritism towards a person who is an acquaintance/friend of your partner ... it doesn't look good on you.