That's a great thought...maybe that relates to the idea of 'identification' with the core principle of ones argument..one stops to remember oneself and therefor has lost awareness..what follows is the uttering of the 'child or parent' (hurtful lashing out or castigating lecturing) rather than the objective 'adult' within..of course I've been plenty guilty of all..lol
>>If a poster does not attack it is usually because something far more creative and dynamic beckons it is not an indictment against their argument<<