I don't know how to respond, life presents each of us with the physical health related cards that we were dealt. Not a good idea to say that your cards are better and therefore you can speak to another's. I certainly can not, so far, I'm lucky, but someday, I as you won't be able to. She almost made a shareholders meeting, so close, I'd say 1/2 hour, my driver was ready to pick her up. Cycle was out of line.
Some understand.
X the less drama here the better.