I don't recall asking you to choose, or even to be my "friend". However, if CH and JXM are making such a request...what kind of real friend ever picks your friends for you? Or are you too weak minded to be able to choose for yourself?
I don't see where it should be a problem for you to enjoy exchanging with all parties mentioned. Starklef posts some good jokes. JXM puts up some good P&F info and occasionally has a good idea. I've been known to post about stocks once in a while. CH seems to be an expert at picking fights. A little variety for everyone.
So, FTR, I am not asking you to choose. Just be yourself and enjoy.
BTW, I have it on good authority that DAD doesn't let Starklef hang out in bars drinking with anyone. Maybe you got your image of JXM and CH mixed up there.
The Bird of Prey