plumear, "to each his own" as they say. You find the direct and factual content in BSW's posts offensive, while at least one of the participants here finds the same posts to be helpful and refreshing. On the other hand, at least one of the participants here is turned off by the endless "emotions and feelings" posts sans factual content that some others post in their "gripe of the month club" activities. It's another one of those "one price brings all" meal deals in life IMO. Eat what you like, and act like the rest is not there.