I'm not saying you have this. But,In learning about this you can get some insight as to how stressors can effect people.
I have the book DSM-IV-TR and it is a wealth of professional knowledge.
Prayer, God Creator of All Things would you give some insight to these problems that are going on. And lead the way to a calmer place. You are the one that can make peace. So please do.
Stormy...hang in there, make sure you are in the Word daily and surrounding yourself with Brothers/Sisters who will help keep you accountable....Steve :-)