thrifty, you posted, "God gives this gift "just as he determines" so if you do not have this gift don't feel bad. IMHO Thoughts?"
thrifty, I asked for this gift a long time before I got it. I honestly don't know why I didn't get it at first. Like I said in a previous post, I got it when I prayed and fasted for my sister and I received it that day. So, I definitely say that if one does not have it, do not feel bad. But I do believe you really have to sincerely seek after it.