actually Mom has no idea how ill she was/is, otherwise she would just lay there and give up. I kick her ass out of bed each morning and have the caretaker get her dressed with hair fixed and a little makeup and even though she bitches about getting so dressed up she looks great. I told her she's living in a gay house now and we have an image to live up too and besides we wheel her around the neighborhood hoping to hook her up with some other grandpa and marry her off!