If the Mod believes simply referencing or mentioning a poster is a TOS because
Other posters are never the topic. Therefore, saying another poster is ignorant of anything makes the post off topic.
then requesting a review seems that it is obviously not going to go anywhere since there is a basic lack of understanding the purpose of a discussion board? I understand not allowing threats, etc. but simply mentioning another poster (especially in this case where I was responding TO that poster's earlier post) is not off topic, it's just conversation. And you are correct, she is apparently an Admin not simply a Mod as I thought.