Screw the formal dinners! On the gay cruise they allowed us to dress with levis. I absolutely refused to wear a money suit on my vacation. I don’t blame you one bit. In fact I didn’t want to be part of that open seating where you can wind up with a bunch of smucks at your table. Madam Floribunda needs to set some guidelines for you or otherwise my prediction is you will be miserable… This is your vacation and agree to only ONE night of dress up and ask the dining room that you want a table just for your group. Have you looked at any of the excursions yets? You must book them now. If you don’t want to go on any of them, book it for the other half and you will have peace and quite for that entire day!