Well there you go, you need the space, lol. Seriously, congrats on the little one - I'm sure he must be a "grand" little one.
Family does come first.
And therein lies the conundrum and indeed the "tragedy" of the Commons. The logic and imperative of acting in our own best interests (and our familiy's) is inescapable. We must do it. Yet, the common good (our "common fate") has its own inexorable logic...which is often at odds with individual welfare.