congrats to you too, SUBLIME and DOWN- it's getting harder to find marriages that go the distance. I'm sure it's not always easy but I hope I make it as far as you guys. A friend of mine gave me some good advice at the wedding- "Anytime it seems like you're starting to lose that feeling you had while you were dating, stop and DO the same things that you were doing when you were dating. Feelings will follow the actions." Really good advice.