Not to belabor it but I would submit there’s no mystery at all.
Pumps attract the volume like a sexy girl with no brains. She looks great, you wanna do her but, when she goes to open her mouth, every smart man in the vicinity runs for the hills.
AMFE is the under the radar hot, nerdy chick... the one with glasses and her hair up, quiet and doing her homework on a bench in the quad, alone. When you approach her, she is instantly engaging. You ask her out to have coffee then go back to her place. That’s when she takes off the glasses and lets her hair down... and you wanna start donating limbs to ensure you’ll stay together.
$AMFE. She’ll twist your head around...